In the time it takes to apply lipliner and mascara,
Millsaps College President Frances Lucas-Tauchar busted
the Barbie myth.
The doll with perfect proportions, a wardrobe to die
for and a bevy of Kens lining up to kiss her feet? She
doesn't exist.
"One of the things that worries me so much today about
young girls is the myth about what's cool - about how
you have to look a certain way," Lucas-Tauchar told
about 300 Clinton Junior High girls and their mothers
Friday at the school's annual "Just Us Girls" breakfast.
"It's the Barbie myth," the Millsaps College president
and mother of two elementary-schoolers said. Then, she
brought down the house with her characterization of
the doll whose price tag starts at about $5.
"If Barbie were anatomically correct, she's so disproportionate
that she would have to walk on all fours," Lucas-Tauchar
said as girls and their mothers roared. "Something about
that delights me."
Her message to the seventh- and eighth- grade girls:
Brains, not beauty, if your ticket to success. "Being
smart is what is going to get you going," she said.
"It's having an incredible mind. This is the beauty
that will pay off in your life. And you know what? There's
no one alive who really looks like Barbie. So what is
real beauty? It's kind words. It's compassion. And let
me tell you: Real beauty is being smart, and you don't
buy that at the mall."
That's just the message the "True to You and Me" program
is meant to convey, said Parent-Teacher-Student Association
board member and "Just Us Girls" chairwoman Faith Martin.
Girls in the 12-14 age group need advice on how to
maintain self-respect and to choose and be a good role
model, Martin said.
"What happens when you lose your self-respect? You
do dumb things. You take drugs. You smoke. Now, that's
dumb," Lucas-Tauchar told the girls.
They took it to heart.
"You have to think for yourself, and if you want to
succeed, you have to believe in yourself," said Christi
Positan, 13, a seventh-grader at the school.
Said Joy Jones, 12, also a seventh-grader: "I want
to go to college and be successful in business. But
without brains, you really can't do anything."
Clinton Junior High counselor Susan Toney, who helped
coordinate the program with "Best Friends" character
and absitnence education teacher Christi Wall, left
the girls and their mothers with a challenge.
"If you can go home tonight and look in the mirror
and say, 'I did a good job today,' then you are doing
what you are supposed to do."